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tell me again about the male loneliness epidemic? 😒
for a long time I've thanked the gods that I'm not dating—and now it's even worse

She left a date after 2 minutes when she recognized this tactic men use to “humble” women — here's what to watch out for


her date told her the plan for their evening was a “surprise” and specifically described the dress code as “comfortable.” So she dressed accordingly: sweatpants, sweatshirt, sneakers, hair in a bun, no jewelry.

After they met up, she says, he tried to lead her straight into a fine dining restaurant. He was dressed appropriately for the venue, in a crisp white button-down shirt, looking like he had just had a fresh shave and haircut. She turned around and bailed immediately.

Why? Because her read of the situation right off the bat was that this wasn't a misunderstanding — it was an attempt to “level the playing field” by embarrassing her on purpose.

Several people likened the move to scam emails that are obviously fake. The point isn’t to convince everyone — it’s to quickly locate the people who will comply, second-guess themselves, and keep engaging. Basically, it's a filter.

What made the clip pop is the dater's refusal to do the emotional labor so many women have been trained to perform. She didn't even ask for an explanation. She just left, got herself fast food, and blocked him immediately. "You showed me who you were,” she says. “You don’t have to show me twice.”

Commenters cheered that energy not just as a clapback (although that too), but as a safety practice: Get out early, don’t escalate, don’t negotiate with someone who’s already demonstrated a taste for control.


https://creators.yahoo.com/lifestyle/story/she-left-a-date-after-2-minutes-when-she-recognized-this-tactic-men-use-to-humble-women--heres-what-to-watch-out-for-051953819.html




When my wife moved in, I learned that she had a lot of anxiety around trying new foods because she was fearful of allergic reactions. I didn't get it at the time, but after all of the food poisoning I've dealt with in recent years, I now have similar anxiety. :(

Oddly enough, I don't recall getting food poisoning almost at all prior to 2020. :/






how did I miss this?

President Donald Trump Struggles on Stairs After Appearing to Slur His Words


As US President Donald Trump returned to the White House for the first time this year, he was filmed stepping off Air Force One. And seemingly, having trouble as he did so. In the video, Trump slowly descended the staircase off the plane, pausing halfway through and maintaining a strong grip on the railing the entire time.

Ironically, this is something Trump previously criticised Joe Biden for. “Every day, the guy’s falling down stairs,” Trump told military generals last year, per The Daily Beast. “I’m very careful. You know, when I walk downstairs – like I’m on stairs, like these stairs – I walk very slowly.”

Trump went on: “Just walk nice and easy. You don’t have to set any record.”

The US President’s apparent struggle with the stairs comes just days after he was accused of slurring his words in a press conference about his controversial involvement in Venezuela.


https://www.yahoo.com/news/articles/president-donald-trump-struggles-stairs-165940435.html










#greenland #trump #canada
January 6, 2026
I posted this 9 months ago. I now include Canada and other counties that the Trump government wants to take over.

Greenland and Denmark should inform the Trump Administration to remove all US military personnel from their land - immediately. And, take all US weapons with them.






Trump is now Embracing the "Donroe Doctrine"


Trump's vision of a U.S. superpower that could assert its military might to conquer the Western Hemisphere is frankly terrifying. Basically it's American imperialism rebranded.

https://abcnews.go.com/Politics/trumps-donroe-doctrine-seeks-influence-western-hemisphere-citing/story?id=128926397






Concerns over fleet of US military planes arriving at UK bases


Arrival of a fleet of #US #military planes at several #UK bases since the attack on #Venezuela has been branded “deeply concerning”.

Ten C-17 #Globemasters and two heavily armed #AC-130J landed at #RAF #Fairford in Gloucestershire and at RAF #Mildenhall in Suffolk in recent days, according to The Daily Mail.

These aircraft often join forces in #covert US operations overseas.

https://www.thenational.scot/news/25744393.concerns-fleet-us-military-planes-arriving-uk-bases/

#USAggression #USInvasions #Imperialism #WarCrimes #invasions


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The best way to deal with the extortion that comes with inkjet printers is by getting a laser printer instead. :P




Letting sociopaths run societies seems counterproductive. Am I missing something? đŸ€”


Saw a new Nissan Leaf for the first time today. 👀


The only correct stance on X versus Wayland is framebuffer console. :P







Weird (corrupted) night on #6m #FT8 . :P

011100 -12  0.1 1728 ~  B88BCQ 3W2LWY/P AC57
020600  -7  1.3 1534 ~  CQ Y3CSK02NKN6
032745  -6  0.2 1454 ~  CQ 8473Q /BO9W

#AmateurRadio #HamRadio




They've been destroying their search engines to force us to use AI instead, but all it's done is make me ask people for help instead. They're shooting themselves in the foot here because if I think to ask people first, I won't even use their search engines! :P


I really want to set up a #Meshtastic / #Meshcore router with a wired Ethernet backhaul. The idea is to have the router and its antenna outdoors, but run the cable indoors to our home network. Any suggestions?

#AmateurRadio #HamRadio #LoRa

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in reply to Neil E. Hodges

Huh, I've never seen anyone do this: it's always been more or less standalone.
in reply to Neil E. Hodges

it is quite possible to have two MC nodes plugged into R-Pi or analog, each running meshcore (eg python) listening to the node, and talking over the net to each other.

i run a bot on the #olybot channel, and it is "easy enough" to have it talk to another set up elsewhere.





"Oso Landslide Memorial Mailboxes"


It is my understanding that these were the mailboxes for the houses that were destroyed by the landslide.

#memorial #mywork #park #photog #photography #rural




Pocket doors are all fun and good until you get stuck in a pocket dimension. :P


Oh wow, 6m is open today. Just got a strong QSO from Texas. 👀 #AmateurRadio #HamRadio


Need to order an SD card for my Bambu P1S because our home WiFi has a hidden SSID, and Bluetooth is basically useless. :(



Listening to The Cranberries because it's the only thing that feels right with the recent US news. :/


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